“For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.” (Matthew 7:2)
In our Orthodox Church we begin Great Lent with Forgiveness Vespers and within the parish mutually asking each other for forgiveness and forgiving others. If Great Lent is a season of repentance – seeking God’s forgiveness, Christ would tell us the first step along this path is to forgive others. Metropolitan Hilarion Alfeyev expands on this theme while commenting on one line in the Lord’s Prayer.
“ ‘And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.’
Prayer is inextricably bound up with a person’s way of life. The reason for the difficulties a person experiences in prayer lies in an incorrect, unspiritual, and non-evangelical life. We sense this especially when we say the ‘Our Father’. Each petition of this prayer places us in front of a given reality, as if we were being judged – judged by our own conscience. And this prayer, if we pray from our soul and heart – if we really think about what is written here – should constantly force us to change our lives.
‘And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us,’
that is, we ask God to forgive us our debts, as we forgive those who are in debt to us. When we speak these words, we should ask ourselves: do we forgive our neighbors? Are we ready to place our own forgiveness by God in dependence on whether we forgive others? Isn’t this too frightening? Isn’t this too much responsibility?”
(Prayer: Encounter with the Living God, pp 117-118)
It indeed is both frightening and tremendous responsibility. The way we will be judged by God is totally dependent on how we treat other people. God judges us by our own criterion of judgment. This is no doubt why in the church we pray constantly, “Lord, have mercy.” God’s judgments are righteous, we constantly ask Him to remember to be merciful.
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.“By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” (John 13:34-35)