“But I say to you that hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. To him who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also; and from him who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt. Give to every one who begs from you; and of him who takes away your goods do not ask them again.” (Luke 6:27-30)
St John Chrysostom, once asked about what kind of people would ask God to do something that goes against God’s own commandments. He was thinking it is you and I!
“Those that make requests it is fitting for God to grant, not beseeching him for what is opposed to his laws. And who is so bold, you ask, as to make God grant what is opposed to his laws? Those who intercede with him against their enemies; this, of course, is at variance with the law decreed by him. He says, remember, ‘forgive your debtors.’ (Matthew 6:12). But do you call on him against your enemies when he has bidden you pardon them? What could be worse than this absurdity? In prayer you should have the appearance, attitude and approach of a suppliant; so why do you adopt another guise, that of accusation? I mean, how would you succeed in gaining pardon of your own faults when you expect God to be the punisher of other’s crimes?” (COMMENTARY ON THE PSALMS Vol 1, p 52)
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, lowliness, meekness, and patience, forbearing one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. (Colossians 3:12-13)