See: God Questions His Creation: Genesis 4:1-2 (a)
4:1 Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the LORD.” 2 And again, she bore his brother Abel.
Adam’s role as parent/father is also never described, nor is any conversation or even interaction between Adam and Eve or Adam and his children described. Fatherhood seems to imply only providing the sperm. Despite Adam’s role in the fall of humanity, he is mentioned as fathering other children, and his death is recorded, unlike Eve’s whose death was unmemorable. His name does appear in the ancestry of Christ the Lord in Luke’s Gospel (3:38). Adam in the New Testament is seen as the prototype of all humans with Christ being the New Adam (Romans 5). Adam’s role as the first human and first male is noted in the New Testament, and his name is not repudiated though he sinned against God as Eve had done.
“I have gotten a man with the help of the LORD.” For the first time in the Biblical story Eve has a role in bringing forth life. Adam had been used by God to bring Eve into existence. Now Eve sees God helping her to bring forth life. The woman who Adam had called “the mother of all living” (Genesis 3:20) had so far only brought death into the world. Now she lives up to her name.
It is interesting that Eve alone has something to say about the first human birth. Adam says nothing, and seems to have been nothing more than the sperm donor for the baby. In Genesis 3:16, in what some consider to be the proto-evangel (the first prophecy of the good news of Christ) God foresaw the seed of woman as engaging in a continual warfare with the serpent’s descendents. That the story places this battle through the seed of woman and does not mention the male in this salvation warfare is unusual in an otherwise male dominated story. Eve’s punishment is linked to childbirth in Genesis 3, but Adam’s punishment is not linked to fathering but only to farming and mortality. In Genesis 3:23, God expels Adam from Paradise so that Adam will not be able to live forever. Adam is neither able to keep himself alive, nor will he be able to propagate the human race without a woman. But in the story God does not overly link Adam with the continuation of the human race, nor in Genesis 4 does Adam have any say about the process. For as much as we play up that we all are descendents of Adam, Eve is the more significant personage in the story of the continuation of the human race after the Fall as recorded in Genesis.
“…gotten a man with the help of the LORD.” The English translation adds a bit to the original text. Eve only says she has gotten a man with God (or through God) – “with the help of” is not in the text. Eve really is saying it was she and God who did this. Is Eve still thinking about the serpent’s promise “to be like God” –even if she didn’t achieve that status through eating the forbidden fruit, maybe she can pass that trait along to her offspring by claiming they are God’s children? Eve ignores Adam’s role in procreation.
Eve was created to be the man’s helper; Here she credits and praises God for being her helper in procreation. Being a helper is obviously not a denigrating position and certainly would not suggest the helper’s subservience as some want to read into Genesis 2. Note also that Eve credits her pregnancy and giving birth to divine help, not to Adam’s virility. She is crediting the continuation of the human race to God and herself. Does she in some prophetic way foreshadow the Virgin birth? Certainly if we look back to Genesis 2 we see that Eve was created by God from Adam. God used Adam to create Eve. Now Eve is saying she and God are responsible for the next generation of humans even though the text clearly says the child resulted from Adam “knowing” Eve. Does she not want to credit her husband with the child? Adam says nothing to defend his masculinity. Was there a war between the sexes ever since the Fall? Or is it that Eve intuits that the procreative process in bringing into existence new life imitates the Creator? Is procreation one way in which we are in God’s image? Is it the moment in which humans are most like their Creator? Certainly in the Psalms God is credited with forming the baby in the womb: “For thou didst form my inward parts, thou didst knit me together in my mother’s womb” (Psalm 139:13) and also with bringing the child forth from the mother’s womb (Psalm 71:6). The mother has an experience of God that no father can ever have – God knitting the child in her womb, and bringing forth new life from her body.
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So what is necessary for all believers is not simply to possess the text of the Bible, but to hear the text with the community of believers and within the people of God in order to come to the proper understanding. The Bible was not written with individualism in mind, and the interpretation of Scripture is not done by any one person alone.
“An old monk became known for his generosity to the needy. A widow came to him demanding some wheat from him. He told her to bring a container and he would give her some. She came back with a container, and suddenly in front of the others who also were hoping for charity, the monk began to berate the woman saying, ‘This container is too large, just who do you think you are?’ The woman was very embarrassed and quickly left. Another monk who observed this asked the old monk, ‘Were you selling the wheat to the widow?’ The old man replied, ‘No, I gave it to her in charity.’ The other monk rebuked the old man, ‘If you gave the wheat to her in charity, why did you treat her so harshly, measure so carefully how much you were giving her, and embarrass her so?”













